Wisdom is best. So get wisdom. No matter what it costs, get understanding. (Proverbs 4:7 NIRV)
Sometimes because of the pressures of life and what we may be going through, the first thing we do is always seek the wisdom of man or the help of man (pastors, friends, family, in-laws, counselors etc.). But the scripture lets us know in Proverbs 3:5-6 to, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Do not depend on your own understanding. In all your ways remember him. Then he will make your paths smooth and straight." Why seek man when God can take care of you. One thing we do not realize is that the help of man is never what we need but the divine wisdom of God that can lead us out of every bad situation. When you take your problems to man, they can judge you and look down on you and criticize you, but God cannot judge you. So concerning your life and your situation seek for God's wisdom and follow it at all cost, so that you may succeed. Put your trust in the Lord, he can never leave you nor forsake you and he can never fail you, but only make you prosper and succeed in all that you lay your hands on. Sometimes it may tarry or take long and people around you may wonder why you are not getting results, but wait and search out God's wisdom, he is never late, but always on time. Search out wisdom and you will succeed at God's appointed time.
Proverbs 19:8 ~ Anyone who gets wisdom loves himself. Anyone who values understanding succeeds.
I pray for you, that you will be empowered to get wisdom, discernment and direction to search out the issues of life and solutions to the situations of your life. in Jesus Name. Amen